Porn. What are your thoughts on it?

If you engage in it, what would you do to avoid getting “found out” by your Significant Other, family, friends, or coworkers? Or are you comfortable in your body, mind, and skin?

How would you react if your Significant Other was watching it? 🙉 Do you consider it cheating or a form of infidelity?

This is such a big topic, and there are scammers out there doing some public research and sending out scam emails. They have phone numbers, addresses, and grab a picture off google of your house (or one down the street if they aren’t paying attention. LOL) 😱

Would you pay $2,000 in bitcoin to avoid potential repercussions? 🤑💰

Scammers Target People In Shame, Guilt, Pain, and/or Fear

My boyfriend got this email and thought it was funny, as he doesn’t watch porn (although if he did I wouldn’t freak out unless it was creating challenges in our intimate lives, and then it would be more of a conversation.)

But many others would be afraid, ashamed, and might fall for the scam.

Scary, Isn’t It?

Personally, I don’t think porn is bad… and yet it can create a ton of challenges in relationships, ability to be intimate, and more.

How much money will the scammer make? And when will the scammer ask for more?

Now’s the time for you to take your power back. I work with people around all kinds of sexual concerns.

Sextortion Is a Thing

I didn’t even know there was a name for it. According to Intego.com,

“Malicious spam emails claiming that your computer has been hacked—and demanding you pay a ransom to stop them from distributing your browsing history and videos of you engaging in activities that you would like to keep private—are not new.It’s a type of scam that can earn money for the scammers, if victims are convinced that they were hacked. But, in reality, it’s unlikely that any such hack has taken place.”

Yet, for many that doesn’t stop the fear, shame, or worry.

Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Help

I’ve helped individuals like you solve challenges such as: lack of desire, painful intercourse, body image challenges, emotional intimacy concerns, porn, fetish, and infidelity desires or action.

I carry no judgement, as I truly believe everyone is on a path and there is a reason they have the desires (or lack thereof), behaviors, and habits they do.

What if the Only Problem With Your Desires Were Your Own Feelings About It? I mean, if we removed all the stigma around what you are doing or not doing, thinking or not, and feeling or not… would it still be a problem? Sometimes “problems” are the unconscious mind finding ways to get our deepest needs met in an unhealthy-to-us way.

One podcast I love is called Wellness + Wisdom. Josh did a great interview with Sathiya Sam about how to break porn addiction.

“Problems” Are Needs Getting Met In A Way You Don’t Like!

That’s why I work with people to help them find the root- what need is getting met by this “problem?” Then, we neutralize emotions to find peace and calm, and create strategies both consciously and unconsciously to get that need met in a way the individual desires. That gives them a sense of freedom, control, power, belonging, desire, and connection.

I’d love to help. Let’s clear those emotions and shift any behaviors, fears, or shame. 😎

You can schedule a zoom or phone call here. I’m here for you. Honestly. No judgement, no manipulation. I won’t even tell you to stop watching it if you desire to continue. And it is time for you to have the resolution you desire.

With love,

Dawn