Are you enjoying being single? Or instead you know that it’s time to find your marriage partner / soulmate.  Maybe the answer is both.

It may seem like finding the perfect romantic match is luck, period. However, just like everything else in life, finding your soulmate is all about understanding what you are looking for. What are the traits you absolutely need in a life partner?

Being comfortable with yourself, having happiness even when single, and exploring yourself and your own emotional healing is very important as you look for your future mate. Using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT tapping) to clear situations and old relationships that still bother you, fears about the future, or beliefs that there’s no one out there for you will help clear any resistance and unconscious blocks to finding your perfect partner.

Know What You REALLY Need

Know what you want in yourself know thyself. WikiHow.com says to make a list of traits you enjoy in a partner such as a sense of humor, or a nice smile, or someone that reads novels… and then embody that trait yourself.

But honestly, there’s a lot of people that are not right for you that do those things. When you look for your soulmate, you want to understand the deep CHARACTER TRAITS your person needs to have.  How are they BEING in the world naturally?   

True Compatibility

Compatibility of likes and dislikes are important, yet when you understand your own needs at a deep level, the 5 traits you are looking for create a sustainable relationship. Period. Not just someone who reads novels or listens to the same music that you do.

WikiHow.com also says to keep an open mind.  To say yes to blind dates and to learn how to flirt.  They tell you to be mysterious on your online dating profile. All of that, in my opinion, is crap.

In essence they are telling you to play games, show up in a way that isn’t truly you.  And for the other person to do the same. 

What A Waste of Time, Money, and Energy.

It doesn’t suit anyone. It’s a bait-and-switch. So how do you learn how to find love?

Imagine Instead

You show up authentically.  Curious about the other person.  Open to seeing if they carry the traits you need.  If they do not have them, you let them go to find the person that suits them better.  What a better way to show up in the world than being mysterious, wondering what they are thinking about you, and then having to reveal your “true” identity later. 

3 Steps to Find Your Soulmate

It’s easy. All you have to do is:

1.  Sign up for the Learning to Find Love Class
2. Participate live or via video at your own pace
3. Walk away with a defined list of traits to share with friends, family, and dating profiles.

Talk about clear manifestation on deep levels!

Have connection rather than just superficial compatibility. You deserve the relationship that everyone want. Let’s go get it!